WOMANHOOD.WHO IS SHE, PSYCHOLOGICALLY?WHO IS SHE, EMBODIED?AND HOW DO WE ACCESS HER?
It is predictably in times of crisis that we are called to turn inwards, and if we are listening carefully we will hear the voice of the archetypal little girl who is hungry for change.
Whilst the pain directs us to the healing, it is serving an even greater purpose; one of initiating psychological growth in order for us to step into a fully-fledged, deliciously mature, self-leading, shapeshifting, and self-authoritative, woman. Our wounded and immature past has simply been the invisible barrier preventing us from standing in the truth of who we are and the crisis acts as an invitation to do the deeper work.
Welcome Lady – I am excited that you have found your way here.
This mentorship container is an offering of flexible long term support and guidance in five key areas that I have very personal and intimate experience with. If one or more of these touches something in you, you have landed in the right place –
SOVEREIGN | BEYOND THE FAMILY SYSTEM
SHADOW WORK | TRIGGERED TREASURES
SELF HUSBANDING | MASCULINE INTEGRATION
ARCHETYPE | A FEMININE EXPLORATION
CREATIVE CALLING | TAKE ACTION ON YOUR DREAM
We look at whatever is most alive in you at present that is calling to be fully felt, seen, explored and expressed. This container is a complementary addition of on-going support following a retreat journey, or for those who simply feel more comfortable with focused 1-1 facilitation.
I took my very first steps on my own journey as a twenty-two year old with an unrelenting anger towards her father and an addiction to victimhood, when one day I heard a different narrative to the ‘pity me’ story that was running circles in my mind. This was a voice bellowing from deep inside of me, an instinctual wise woman, she told me it was time to face these shadow aspects and begin my therapeutic inquiry. This was the psyche’s call to action in taking responsibility for myself.
My life changed radically. As within, so without!
Talk therapy was just the entry point into a world unimagined, as the following fifteen years would see the unfolding of an ineffable journey into the mysteries of my own unconscious, totally transforming my internal reality.
I was blind to the fact that what I had just embarked on was far more layered, and rich in complexity and meaning; I had begun a conscious process of individuating, and I would never look back.
Today, just a few years short of forty I have built an unshakeable inner foundation and a capacity to hold the full spectrum of life.
I want every woman to know how it feels to stand unapologetic in the raw truth of who she came here to be, to unequivocally trust her inner guidance and to harness her unique creative potential and personal power.
Without the work of deconditioning ourselves from our programming, we fall vulnerable to allowing the theatre of our immature past to take centre stage, robbing us of claiming the throne of our fully embodied, awakened and liberated womanhood.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
If you are called to this mentorship, welcome.
I am delighted you are here.
Now let’s get to work.
1. SOVEREIGN | BEYOND THE FAMILY SYSTEM
Who are you beyond your family identity?
Discovering your unique identity beyond the family system is a crucial and foundational step. Most never look here because they are plagued by guilt, shame and the fear of ostracization, yet this is the pathway to breaking generational patterns.
This is not to be confused with family estrangement – whilst in very particular cases this can be necessary, we are working at the emotional and energetic attachments that bind us unconsciously to group thought systems and patterns of behaviour preventing individuation.
2. SHADOW WORK | TRIGGERED TREASURES
When we reject the shadow, we deny ourselves the right to know our fullest potential, for what dwells in the darkness is a whole hidden treasure tray that contains unlived life and a vast reservoir of psychic energy.
Shadow aspects are discovered through our triggers that show up as judgements, envy, disgust etc towards another. This is our unconscious communicating with us. Like messengers, they are whispering for us to listen to the parts of ourselves we have exiled.
This is often the missing component to the inner alchemy that people are seeking. During this process we shine a light into the darkest places, bringing these shamed and rejected aspects back into consciousness.
3. SELF HUSBANDING | MASCULINE INTEGRATION
Transcend the woman in waiting, integrate your masculine and step into your true purpose and power as a woman who is directed and knows how to lead herself –
There is no prince charming coming to save you. It is the inner little girl who remains married to this fantasy whilst putting aspects of her life on hold and relinquishing true self-responsibility.
This is a complex work of masculine integration that begins with taking a look at our primary paternal blueprint.
We work on how we can redirect the energy of waiting (powerlessness) into action (power) and uncover the root cause that is keeping this girl stuck in the energy pattern of freeze.
4. ARCHETYPE | A FEMININE EXPLORATION
Reclaim your rejected parts and step into your fullest expression as a multifaceted woman.
The full spectrum of what it means to be a woman is devalued in a culture that prefers obedience and domestication over her fullest expression.
So many flavours of a woman lay buried beneath the surface of a character that is exhausted from a lifetime of performing.
We explore these forgotten parts and bring them back into embodied consciousness activating more radiance, aliveness and magnetism.
5. THE CREATIVE CALLING | THE COURAGE TO TAKE ACTION ON YOUR DREAM
The fastest way to build resentment is to not take action on your creative impulses. If this energy doesn’t move - it inverts, and this internalises states of stagnation and depression.
The creative fire is our hook up to source – it wants us to birth its divine creations into the material world. This is the same energy that brings new human life, earth side – it is our literal life force and power centre that can express itself in infinite ways throughout our lifetimes.
To keep the creative fire burning is to keep our essence, vitality and aliveness. It is essential nourishment for the feminine soul.
We look at the unconscious blocks, belief systems and fears as well as the embodied work that is necessary before we can then forge a strategy to get you into forward moving motion.
THE CONTAINER – ONLINE VIA ZOOM
By entering the mentoring container with me you understand that this is a process of self-inquiry and radical responsibility, not of rumination but of excavating and transmuting outdated parts. This no nonsense approach gets you results – it is forward moving without bypassing the very necessary shadow work.
You become an archaeologist of your Soul, investigating who occupies the space beneath the surface of her outdated and worn out identities.
MY METHOD
Sessions blend various methods to access your embodied felt-sense as my approach is bottom up and bridges together the unique blend of therapeutic modalities I have trained in – all into one space.
Ultimately this is a creative and experiential process of self-investigation. One that will get you excited about your findings and eager to learn more about the person you are continually becoming.
STRUCTURE OF SESSIONS
There is no rigid weekly structure. I want you to extract the most juice from each session and therefore to book in when something is the most alive in you and when it calls you. Life is non-linear and so is your process. We follow its greater guidance.
INVESTMENT
£75 / 60 minutes
*Concessions available for those who need it at £55
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Jas
I came here three years ago when I was in a very different place in my life. It was then one of the most powerful things I’ve done to set me on a very beautiful path. I felt to come back again this year and now in a new phase in my life, I didn’t know if I could achieve the same kind of contentment from the teachings. A few days in and I realized I can and I will. Stephanie is one of the greatest gifts to anyone who is in need of guidance. I’m so very grateful that she provides a very safe, trusted space for so many people. There’s very few people who can give such gentle but effective guidance to a group of very individual, individuals. Again Stephanie, thank you for putting me back on my path of great happiness and gratitude. The journey starts here!